Watching web porn is \u2018cheating\u2019<\/b>?
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Leading US relationship advisor Dr Phillip McGraw has hit out at users of internet porn, insisting that it is cheating on their partners. McGraw, who offers advice to millions of Americans on Oprah Winfrey\u2019s TV show, said that women should not put up with their partners looking at web porn, which he described as an addiction.<\/p>\n
\u201cAddicts give lame justifications for their behaviour like: \u2018It\u2019s harmless\u2019, or \u2018Everybody\u2019s doing it\u2019. By doing this, they ignore the effect their problem is having on the people around them,\u201d he said. With more than 17.5 million users visiting internet porn sites from their homes every month, McGraw\u2019s statement could result in more domestic confrontations.<\/p>\n
\u201cThis behavior is not OK, it\u2019s not even almost OK. This habit is a perverse and ridiculous intrusion into your relationship,\u201d he advised partners of porn \u2018addicts\u2019. He told people not to put up with excuses such as \u2018All men look at porn\u2019, or \u2018It\u2019s just the internet\u2019. This attitude speaks volumes about the health of the relationship, he said. A partner has to choose what\u2019s more important to them: pornography or the relationship.<\/p>\n
day lee notes: Dr. Phil is THE biggest asshole that ever lived if he actually takes this to heart. In my own personal experience, porn actually puts *spice* into my love life. My fiancee loves me to pieces and he\u2019s really turned on by me. HOWEVER\u2026.I know this is really personal but *ahem*\u2013porn actually inspires him to keep our romance exciting.<\/b><\/p>\n
I think the people Dr. Phil is referencing here are those folk who use porn as a substitute for a great relationship\u2026i.e. Joe Schmoe and his wife never work out their communication problems and hold grudges or something is amiss and so their sexual drive for each other is low or nill\u2013so he uses porn and his wife cries \u2018that\u2019s cheating!\u2019<\/p>\n
Am I off the mark here? Men\u2013send me some feedback on this. I\u2019m right aren\u2019t I? All men DO look at porn, and it IS just the internet. Dr. Phil\u2019s got his head up his ass.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t you all agree? Men, women\u2013alike\u2026let me know<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Watching web porn is \u2018cheating\u2019? -VNUNet Leading US relationship advisor Dr Phillip McGraw has hit out at users of internet porn, insisting that it is cheating on their partners. McGraw, who offers advice to millions of Americans on Oprah Winfrey\u2019s TV show, said that women should not put up with their partners looking at web … <\/p>\n